1 00:00:04,167 --> 00:00:09,834 speeding right into the construction zone. Thank you. 2 00:00:21,934 --> 00:00:25,267 Thank you. 3 00:00:30,967 --> 00:00:34,367 I got a yapper behind me. Hold on. I’ll mute myself. Good 4 00:00:34,367 --> 00:00:40,200 evening, Tiffany. Hey. Someone’s chihuahuas outside 5 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,867 out back behind me and I’m like, eh. Hey. Someone’s chill 6 00:00:44,867 --> 00:00:47,866 out. 7 00:00:49,268 --> 00:00:51,701 Alright, well, just going to give it a few more minutes to 8 00:00:51,701 --> 00:00:57,600 let anybody else want to join who’s going to join. 9 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,867 How was your week, Tiffany? 10 00:01:08,667 --> 00:01:12,766 It’s I mean, it’s going. It’s my husband’s birthday today so. 11 00:01:12,766 --> 00:01:18,134 Well, happy birthday to him. Happy birthday. He’s going to 12 00:01:18,134 --> 00:01:22,000 hate me on Saturday. 13 00:01:23,467 --> 00:01:29,100 I got him a cake. I got him a Peppa Pig cake. Oh. 14 00:01:29,100 --> 00:01:34,000 Interesting. He personally hates Peppa Pig. Not because 15 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:38,034 it’s a kid’s cartoon and it’s annoying. Personally because 16 00:01:38,034 --> 00:01:41,700 like she fat shames. If you ever pay attention like she 17 00:01:41,700 --> 00:01:46,534 makes fun of fat people. Okay. And he don’t like that. Well, I 18 00:01:46,534 --> 00:01:51,967 mean, I I wouldn’t either. I don’t watch that show myself so 19 00:01:51,967 --> 00:01:57,166 I don’t know. I wouldn’t know. But as skinny as he is, he 20 00:01:57,166 --> 00:02:00,934 proclaims to be a fat **** because let me tell you, he can 21 00:02:00,934 --> 00:02:05,933 eat. So, internally, he’s a fat **** So, I got him the Peppa 22 00:02:05,933 --> 00:02:10,234 Pig cake and I’m basically going to say, happy birthday, 23 00:02:10,234 --> 00:02:15,400 Porkchop on it. Oh, okay. But he’s going to hate me when he 24 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:19,134 sees it. He’s going to be like, really **** Really? Peppa Pig? 25 00:02:19,134 --> 00:02:25,967 So we are on Facebook Live. Oh 26 00:02:27,833 --> 00:02:34,400 Yes. Sorry. Thank you. Now you warn me. I wasn’t sure. I just 27 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,467 knew that we were recording. I wasn’t sure what was actually 28 00:02:37,467 --> 00:02:43,234 going on. Um. Myself before I get my myself in more trouble. 29 00:02:43,234 --> 00:02:46,934 Is there is there anything that you had to talk about today or 30 00:02:46,934 --> 00:02:51,634 would like to talk about during the video today? Anything you’d 31 00:02:51,634 --> 00:02:56,600 like to bring to the table? 32 00:02:58,167 --> 00:03:02,234 not that I can think of off the top of my head. It’ll just be 33 00:03:02,234 --> 00:03:07,301 one of those like if anyone has anything and I have some news 34 00:03:07,301 --> 00:03:10,167 that can go with it. I’ll update people or something. 35 00:03:10,167 --> 00:03:18,200 Okay. If needed. Alright. So, I know we’re getting excited for 36 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:22,534 the Saint Patrick’s Day parade that coming up this Sunday with 37 00:03:22,534 --> 00:03:26,800 the exception of the weather. Uh we’re supposed to get some 38 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:31,800 crazy rain on Saturday that may turn into some snow. Uh which 39 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:36,634 leads us to have a very very cold parade on Sunday. So 40 00:03:36,634 --> 00:03:39,934 anybody wanting to go to the parade, please dress warm. Cuz 41 00:03:39,934 --> 00:03:47,434 it is definitely going to be cold. Um to you 42 00:03:47,768 --> 00:03:49,666 State police can’t. I know Saturday. I’m not sure if EDM 43 00:03:49,666 --> 00:03:53,967 will still be open for anybody to go down to make posters for 44 00:03:53,967 --> 00:03:58,501 the parade on Sunday due to the weather. Uh we’ll keep you 45 00:03:58,501 --> 00:04:03,966 posted and updated on that information as well. Um when we 46 00:04:03,966 --> 00:04:10,834 get that. Confirmation from EDM which is Everyday Miracles. Um 47 00:04:10,834 --> 00:04:13,767 Kayla, is there anything that you’d like to talk about 48 00:04:13,767 --> 00:04:18,634 tonight or bring to the table? 49 00:04:21,767 --> 00:04:25,467 proved to be too expensive. Let me put my thinking cap on. No 50 00:04:25,467 --> 00:04:28,667 problem. 51 00:04:40,034 --> 00:04:41,966 Darlene is jumping in. Hi, Darlene. Hey, hey. What’s 52 00:04:41,966 --> 00:04:49,934 happening? We are live on Facebook. Awesome. Good. How 53 00:04:49,934 --> 00:04:53,767 are you, Darlene? I’m good, thank you. Feeling well today. 54 00:04:53,767 --> 00:04:58,000 Good. Always good to hear. Beautiful sunset tonight. It 55 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:03,366 was amazing. Yes. It was a beautiful day after after all 56 00:05:03,366 --> 00:05:06,666 that snow we got. Yeah. Go ahead because we’re getting 57 00:05:06,666 --> 00:05:10,666 slammed Saturday. I know. So, I was just taking anybody coming 58 00:05:10,666 --> 00:05:15,800 to the parade on Sunday should dress warm. Yeah. Uh because be 59 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,734 cold for sure. I don’t know, man. We’re going to 50degree 60 00:05:19,734 --> 00:05:22,333 weather after this. I don’t know. Well, Saturday is 61 00:05:22,333 --> 00:05:25,067 supposed to be fifty with the weather that we’re supposed to 62 00:05:25,067 --> 00:05:28,901 get. But then on Sunday, it’s supposed to be down in the 63 00:05:28,901 --> 00:05:37,867 thirty-five, thirty-six. Yeah. Windy. Okay. Wow. Yep. We were 64 00:05:37,867 --> 00:05:40,600 we were able to get it on Facebook. We’re on Facebook 65 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:49,301 now? Yes, we are. We are live. Ming. Good. That’s great. Uh we 66 00:05:49,301 --> 00:05:51,966 were just getting to Kayla to see if she had anything to add 67 00:05:51,966 --> 00:05:55,867 but we’ll go right to you before we get to Kayla and see 68 00:05:55,867 --> 00:05:59,200 if there’s anything you’d like to talk about today or bring to 69 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:05,268 the table. Um let me gather my thoughts because I just rushed 70 00:06:05,268 --> 00:06:09,301 on. So, let me gather my thoughts first. Kayla, has the 71 00:06:09,301 --> 00:06:12,400 same, has the same mindset right now? She’s like, oh my 72 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:16,667 god. Yeah. Uh that’s that’s not a problem at all. Okay, cool. 73 00:06:16,667 --> 00:06:22,400 Alright, Kayla ready? Yep, I’m ready. I got my thinking cap on 74 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:27,534 and thought my thoughts away and I know that we have a lot 75 00:06:27,534 --> 00:06:35,134 going on and where we are just starting with our Zoom call 76 00:06:35,134 --> 00:06:40,667 tonight. Um I do just want to say that 77 00:06:40,733 --> 00:06:48,500 it’s things are going pretty good over here. And I don’t 78 00:06:48,500 --> 00:06:51,434 know because now that we are officially live on Facebook 79 00:06:51,434 --> 00:06:55,567 with our Zoom, so other people can chime in and know that we 80 00:06:55,567 --> 00:07:03,034 are working on offering services to individuals who are 81 00:07:03,034 --> 00:07:06,600 looking or interested in going into college with admission and 82 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:14,567 transferring. we are offering services in quarry ceilings and 83 00:07:14,567 --> 00:07:20,400 also we are offering services in the plan of safe care. So if 84 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:24,601 anybody is interested in these services, they can always go 85 00:07:24,601 --> 00:07:29,167 ahead and fill an intake form and we’ll go ahead and schedule 86 00:07:29,167 --> 00:07:34,534 an appointment and get those services put into place. Um and 87 00:07:34,534 --> 00:07:39,768 they are free except for the college admission and 88 00:07:39,768 --> 00:07:44,167 transferring. Um there’s some cost to that because of scripts 89 00:07:44,167 --> 00:07:47,667 and other things that go along with college fees. But that is 90 00:07:47,667 --> 00:07:53,500 all available on our website which is updated And it’s 91 00:07:53,500 --> 00:07:57,801 Proactive Families Advocacy. com. And it’s right under our 92 00:07:57,801 --> 00:08:04,333 events page. So everything is good to go there. Um but yes 93 00:08:04,333 --> 00:08:08,200 that’s pretty much it for my update. But I’ll go ahead and 94 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:14,634 hand the mic over to Darlene if she’s ready. 95 00:08:15,401 --> 00:08:19,133 Um I I don’t really have too much. I mean, are you looking 96 00:08:19,133 --> 00:08:24,333 for personal updates or just general updates in the 97 00:08:24,333 --> 00:08:27,834 movement? What do you what are you thinking? Yeah and all of 98 00:08:27,834 --> 00:08:32,300 it. Yeah. Anything that you want to share with us Darlene? 99 00:08:32,300 --> 00:08:37,967 Okay. Well well I had a DCF investigator overstep her 100 00:08:37,967 --> 00:08:43,668 bounds and file a harassment order against me. And sadly she 101 00:08:43,668 --> 00:08:49,167 know how to legally fill out an affidavit and she lied on the 102 00:08:49,167 --> 00:08:53,800 affidavit. So, her immunity is out the window and yeah, 103 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:56,800 basically, wiped the floor of Palmer District Court with her 104 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:04,800 **** and yeah. So, so there’s that and 105 00:09:05,034 --> 00:09:09,166 the investigation, the criminal investigation obviously is 106 00:09:09,166 --> 00:09:13,167 going nowhere ’cuz I’m innocent and I’m, I have not been 107 00:09:13,167 --> 00:09:20,366 arrested because it’s all **** and they know it and so, that’s 108 00:09:20,366 --> 00:09:24,200 going well and I’ve been working diligently with law 109 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,701 enforcement providing plenty of evidence so they can see who 110 00:09:27,701 --> 00:09:34,934 the real psychopath is and the real abuser and Let’s see. What 111 00:09:34,934 --> 00:09:40,234 else? Oh and so I filed some motions because my my ex filed 112 00:09:40,234 --> 00:09:45,966 a counterclaim to completely remove me from the picture. And 113 00:09:45,966 --> 00:09:48,534 they didn’t serve me with the counterclaims. So they violated 114 00:09:48,534 --> 00:09:54,900 rule, mass general rule five B, pro say litigants need to be 115 00:09:54,900 --> 00:09:59,734 served correctly via USPCS. It can’t be on email unless 116 00:09:59,734 --> 00:10:05,166 there’s written agreement. And and so filed a couple of really 117 00:10:05,166 --> 00:10:08,667 comprehensive motions that that covered every single law that’s 118 00:10:08,667 --> 00:10:11,301 being violated like a like a total of five laws or 119 00:10:11,301 --> 00:10:20,000 something. And might have been six. And And The judge denied 120 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:25,001 both my motions, which tells me that she’s willing to break the 121 00:10:25,001 --> 00:10:29,301 law and violate my rights. So, I’m looking at a federal suit. 122 00:10:29,301 --> 00:10:34,534 I’m looking at I’m filing complaints and lawsuits with 123 00:10:34,534 --> 00:10:37,434 the attorney general not lawsuit but a complaint with 124 00:10:37,434 --> 00:10:43,734 the attorney general office. Um I am what else? I’m filing a 125 00:10:43,734 --> 00:10:48,567 motion to vacate. Um based on violation of mask law, federal 126 00:10:48,567 --> 00:10:51,667 law, 127 00:10:52,934 --> 00:10:58,134 and oh I feel bad. I’m I’m getting pizza for my roommate 128 00:10:58,134 --> 00:11:03,500 right now so. Oh nice. Okay. No problem. Nine twenty-six. There 129 00:11:03,500 --> 00:11:06,634 you go. Thank you so much. Thank you. So yeah, I’ll come 130 00:11:06,634 --> 00:11:10,567 back after that. So, anyway, yeah. So, these family courts, 131 00:11:10,567 --> 00:11:13,967 you know, these judges are, you know, they they think they’re 132 00:11:13,967 --> 00:11:16,767 gods. They think they’re above the law. They think they 133 00:11:16,767 --> 00:11:19,766 because they wear a black robe that they have a right to 134 00:11:19,766 --> 00:11:24,134 violate the law. Um which puts them in the same category as 135 00:11:24,134 --> 00:11:26,900 any criminal I know was violated the law and I have to 136 00:11:26,900 --> 00:11:32,400 say the only criminal I really know is my ex. Cuz she’s filed 137 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:36,334 multiple multiple false police reports which is a violation of 138 00:11:36,334 --> 00:11:41,467 law. Um she’s a mandated reporter, a vice principal, and 139 00:11:41,467 --> 00:11:46,634 Spencer Knoxtrail and she’s She’s made false accusations to 140 00:11:46,634 --> 00:11:53,567 DCF for years. Um which which I mean that’s one thing DCF needs 141 00:11:53,567 --> 00:11:58,733 to learn how to deal with. They need they can’t just ignore 142 00:11:58,733 --> 00:12:04,400 when you have a a repetition of history showing constant false 143 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,966 accusations being made. They can’t just ignore that and they 144 00:12:07,966 --> 00:12:11,834 do. They just ignore it. Like there’s no ramifications. You 145 00:12:11,834 --> 00:12:15,066 can be a official mandated reporter. Work in the public 146 00:12:15,066 --> 00:12:18,334 school system. And just continue to make false 147 00:12:18,334 --> 00:12:22,167 accusations against anyone you want and there’s no 148 00:12:22,167 --> 00:12:24,534 ramifications. There’s no accountability. And that’s the 149 00:12:24,534 --> 00:12:26,700 real problem with our entire system. There’s no 150 00:12:26,700 --> 00:12:30,500 accountability. So, we, the people, are finding ways to 151 00:12:30,500 --> 00:12:34,300 make them accountable. We’re looking at we’re working with 152 00:12:34,300 --> 00:12:38,167 Barbara Stone who’s looking to do an international criminal 153 00:12:38,167 --> 00:12:42,366 complaint for all states. Um we’re looking at the bond 154 00:12:42,366 --> 00:12:46,200 issues to see how we can exercise that. Because every 155 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,667 elected or appointed public official holds a bond. Which is 156 00:12:48,667 --> 00:12:56,500 also as a liability policy. we’re looking at how to 157 00:12:56,500 --> 00:13:01,834 exercise that avenue. Um you know, some of us are trying to 158 00:13:01,834 --> 00:13:06,366 get more in tune with how to file federal lawsuits and have 159 00:13:06,366 --> 00:13:10,200 our rights enforced but it’s it’s so funny how the **** show 160 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:14,000 just it basically mirrors what’s happening in the world. 161 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,800 You know, everybody. Thanks to all your constitutional rights 162 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:20,400 don’t matter. You know, you you think you’re free? Ha ha, 163 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,201 you’re not free. I mean, it’s true. We’re really not. We’re 164 00:13:22,201 --> 00:13:26,534 really not. But 165 00:13:26,901 --> 00:13:28,767 we’re trying to get there. We’re trying to get there and 166 00:13:28,767 --> 00:13:33,133 we’re trying to enforce the rights that we do have. So so 167 00:13:33,133 --> 00:13:37,301 it’s just, you know, there’s a lot going on and you know, I’m 168 00:13:37,301 --> 00:13:40,400 doing another podcast this weekend, this Saturday with 169 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:45,668 Mary Ann Petrie about the state of the crime spree here in 170 00:13:45,668 --> 00:13:49,600 Massachusetts and also updates on my case. Um trying to always 171 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:54,000 hold individuals accountable and yes, we use names because 172 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,834 if you’re an elected official, you better expect your name to 173 00:13:57,834 --> 00:14:01,633 get used. If you work for the government, Miss Little Kendra 174 00:14:01,633 --> 00:14:06,868 you better be sure. Mister I’m sorry. Little Miss Kendra. 175 00:14:06,868 --> 00:14:12,567 Super sad. Kendra super sad Brown. You better expect you 176 00:14:12,567 --> 00:14:15,800 better expect your name to be used. Because you work for the 177 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,201 government. And it’s a real it’s it’s it’s really 178 00:14:19,201 --> 00:14:23,400 disgusting when a government worker lies on legal 179 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:27,634 affidavits. Commits fraud on the court. Or misrepresents 180 00:14:27,634 --> 00:14:30,800 themselves. And on top of it destroys children. And the 181 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:35,600 relationship a good, loving, law-abiding citizen has with 182 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:42,000 those children. So that’s my update. It’s a lot. Yeah, it 183 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,834 does seem like you have a lot going on. Um. Little, little, 184 00:14:44,834 --> 00:14:49,767 little bit. Yes. Now, you said that you’re you have your 185 00:14:49,767 --> 00:14:53,668 podcast on Saturday. So, how do we, how do we join in to listen 186 00:14:53,668 --> 00:14:57,067 or what how what are the details on that and what is 187 00:14:57,067 --> 00:15:00,634 that? Okay. So, what Mary Ann does is she calls in. Uh we 188 00:15:00,634 --> 00:15:04,267 chat a little bit. Then, she starts recording, introduces 189 00:15:04,267 --> 00:15:08,934 her speaker. We talk about the issues and then 45 minutes 190 00:15:08,934 --> 00:15:12,766 afterwards, it’s published. So, don’t worry, I’ll be posting it 191 00:15:12,766 --> 00:15:17,000 everywhere. You’ll see it. And you’re welcome. So. Yeah, we’ll 192 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,668 definitely share it for you to get your story out there and 193 00:15:20,668 --> 00:15:23,967 hopes that it even inspires you. Massachusetts and welcome. 194 00:15:23,967 --> 00:15:28,667 If there’s anybody who, anybody in Massachusetts who wants me 195 00:15:28,667 --> 00:15:33,734 to highlight a certain issue, and I mean, even if you’re 196 00:15:33,734 --> 00:15:36,867 willing to bring certain details force that force that 197 00:15:36,867 --> 00:15:39,966 you want people to know about, like certain crimes being 198 00:15:39,966 --> 00:15:43,166 committed that are just heinous, like, there’s this 199 00:15:43,166 --> 00:15:47,166 whole harmony thing that I don’t even know enough about 200 00:15:47,166 --> 00:15:50,366 but you know maybe I’ll do some research and maybe what we 201 00:15:50,366 --> 00:15:53,334 might discuss that because that’s that’s just, you know, 202 00:15:53,334 --> 00:15:56,534 that’s a local issue that’s just discussing and that was a 203 00:15:56,534 --> 00:16:00,567 complete you know, that was in, it should have been in family 204 00:16:00,567 --> 00:16:03,401 court but it was in juvenile court because juvenile court is 205 00:16:03,401 --> 00:16:05,900 private. They can hide things in juvenile court, you know, 206 00:16:05,900 --> 00:16:10,134 and Judge Newman is, you know, he’s he’s a he needs to be held 207 00:16:10,134 --> 00:16:15,300 accountable as does DCF. So so if there’s any issues, anybody 208 00:16:15,300 --> 00:16:18,400 wants me to bring forth because we’re going to mainly focus on 209 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:21,734 Massachusetts but I’ve also been talking to Jackie Pidnick 210 00:16:21,734 --> 00:16:27,334 of Be Loud State Watchers and we’re thinking of doing a 211 00:16:27,334 --> 00:16:31,500 podcast with Mary Ann with as many well not as many but with 212 00:16:31,500 --> 00:16:37,734 a few select advocates from different states just to sort 213 00:16:37,734 --> 00:16:41,200 of like I think it needs to be brought out. We are dealing 214 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,366 with a national issue here. Family court cartel is 215 00:16:44,366 --> 00:16:50,366 national. It’s not a local it’s national. We’ve got DCF and CPS 216 00:16:50,366 --> 00:16:54,167 which is just, you know, the largest trunk legal child 217 00:16:54,167 --> 00:16:58,534 trafficking institution we know, federally run. So, you 218 00:16:58,534 --> 00:17:02,000 know, we we’re trying to bring advocates together to highlight 219 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,867 the issues that are going on nationally. So, that’s 220 00:17:05,867 --> 00:17:11,334 something we’re entertaining also. Awesome. Awesome. You’re 221 00:17:11,334 --> 00:17:14,400 definitely doing a great job. We appreciate you for being 222 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:19,668 here and sharing your story and empowering other to fight for 223 00:17:19,668 --> 00:17:23,967 what’s right and their rights, you know? Absolutely. Once you 224 00:17:23,967 --> 00:17:29,000 lose the fear, the sky’s the limit. Yes. I’m learning that 225 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:32,534 myself, honestly. 226 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:37,967 I Takes a little time. Nine years has has primed me well. I 227 00:17:37,967 --> 00:17:42,000 bet. Tiffany, I see you have your hand up. Did you have 228 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:46,766 something to include? Um actually, yeah. Me and Darlene 229 00:17:46,766 --> 00:17:50,000 kind of came up with an idea the other day that I actually 230 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:54,667 really kind of want to do. as like 231 00:17:54,667 --> 00:18:02,667 as like a different type of protest to the family courts. 232 00:18:02,700 --> 00:18:07,800 telling them to clean up their **** or else, we will. By 233 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:13,901 sending them like large amounts of adult. Depends diapers. And 234 00:18:13,901 --> 00:18:19,668 I I for a while that you know these people would be the best 235 00:18:19,668 --> 00:18:23,801 day to do this but the same day we’re having our national rally 236 00:18:23,801 --> 00:18:29,467 in DC. While basically we’re rallying in DC. The postal 237 00:18:29,467 --> 00:18:32,366 service is doing our dirty work. Delivering all our boxes 238 00:18:32,366 --> 00:18:37,834 to all the courthouses. So when they come in on Monday, they’re 239 00:18:37,834 --> 00:18:41,733 going to have boxes of depends with a literal note saying, 240 00:18:41,733 --> 00:18:47,967 clean up your **** I love the idea. I mean, I think a small 241 00:18:47,967 --> 00:18:51,967 box, financially, a small box to select courts that have 242 00:18:51,967 --> 00:18:58,434 known to be real child trafficker, home bases. Mm hmm. 243 00:18:58,434 --> 00:19:01,367 Be a good idea. I mean, you know, chances are with the 244 00:19:01,367 --> 00:19:04,567 stalkers and trolls I have, they’ll probably know where it 245 00:19:04,567 --> 00:19:07,133 came from but I really don’t give a **** Is it illegal? 246 00:19:07,133 --> 00:19:11,067 Because I don’t care. It’s not illegal. It’s a it’s a form of 247 00:19:11,067 --> 00:19:15,200 protest. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah, it’s again, it’s a 248 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,267 peaceful form of protest. We’re not mailing, god forbid, like 249 00:19:18,267 --> 00:19:23,734 bombs or anything that. We’re mailing freaking diapers. 250 00:19:23,734 --> 00:19:26,834 Right. 251 00:19:28,767 --> 00:19:35,634 I, I, I agree, I think that is, definitely hilarious. but to 252 00:19:35,634 --> 00:19:39,400 actually do it, I don’t know if I, I don’t know if I could. I 253 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:43,233 already got people collecting the beds for me. Oh, really? 254 00:19:43,233 --> 00:19:46,000 They’re already like, oh, we’ll buy you a couple packs when we 255 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:51,634 go to the store like, sure. Wow. So, yeah. I’ve got, I’ve 256 00:19:51,634 --> 00:19:57,834 kind of already started. Oh, boy. Yo, just the F office 257 00:19:57,834 --> 00:20:02,267 could do some depends. Yeah? Well 258 00:20:02,366 --> 00:20:04,434 Like I said, let’s let’s do this. I figured what better day 259 00:20:04,434 --> 00:20:08,534 to have them all than the same day we’re on the new like 260 00:20:08,534 --> 00:20:12,234 basically in DC for the rally. Yeah, I mean. Budsman office, 261 00:20:12,234 --> 00:20:16,534 they need depends. Linda Horva, Linda Horwath, then one 262 00:20:16,534 --> 00:20:22,834 straight to Linda Spears. Then, Linda Spear, yes. Yup. Yeah. 263 00:20:22,834 --> 00:20:29,834 Hey, I’m in. Families family court chief justices? Oh John 264 00:20:29,834 --> 00:20:32,567 Casey, man. Don’t even bring. He’s just a piece of **** Right 265 00:20:32,567 --> 00:20:36,800 to their offices. Let’s do it. Uh. So John Casey, just a 266 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:40,600 little update there. So, there was a group of parents who met 267 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:45,801 with him. Oh wait, before my phone dies. Um who met with him 268 00:20:45,801 --> 00:20:49,834 last month and it was it wasn’t a secret or anything. Like it 269 00:20:49,834 --> 00:20:52,966 wasn’t a secret. Some people thought why didn’t you tell me 270 00:20:52,966 --> 00:20:57,801 it was like the victims of Gorman were meeting with John 271 00:20:57,801 --> 00:21:00,800 Casey. That’s what it was about. They didn’t even know 272 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,467 when they got to the meeting that there were a bunch of 273 00:21:02,467 --> 00:21:07,167 other people present on Zoom at the meeting. So, other victims, 274 00:21:07,167 --> 00:21:10,534 okay? So, it ended up being a group of people. So, it’s no 275 00:21:10,534 --> 00:21:14,000 secret, right? Dennis Bain was there. He’s amazing. Dennis 276 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:17,967 will stand outside of course with his signs and he’s just, 277 00:21:17,967 --> 00:21:20,934 he’s awesome. He’s a great dad. He’s just a good guy and he’s 278 00:21:20,934 --> 00:21:26,467 getting the **** end of the stick. So, anyway, So then 279 00:21:26,467 --> 00:21:30,301 there was all this drama from other groups and individuals. I 280 00:21:30,301 --> 00:21:34,333 won’t mention about this meeting that got all like their 281 00:21:34,333 --> 00:21:36,000 panties got all in a wod because they thought that 282 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,800 people were like keeping stuff from them. Well, no, it was 283 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:43,701 never a secret to begin with, okay? So, anyway, John Casey 284 00:21:43,701 --> 00:21:46,767 was shocked to hear that there’s over probably over 400 285 00:21:46,767 --> 00:21:48,867 families. It’s probably even higher than that because 286 00:21:48,867 --> 00:21:51,734 there’s a lot we don’t know about. Um that are being 287 00:21:51,734 --> 00:21:56,400 affected too afraid to stand up and speak. Yeah, yeah, but 288 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,801 there’s a lot of people being affected by the Family Court 289 00:21:58,801 --> 00:22:01,634 Cartel and you seem shocked, right? So, he was going to hold 290 00:22:01,634 --> 00:22:05,467 this meeting monthly. Well, I guess it got back to him. I 291 00:22:05,467 --> 00:22:09,534 don’t know how but Dennis told me that he was, John Casey was 292 00:22:09,534 --> 00:22:12,333 all upset that, you know, other people knew about this meeting 293 00:22:12,333 --> 00:22:15,067 and he’s going to limit the number of people at the next 294 00:22:15,067 --> 00:22:17,600 meeting. Yet, he hasn’t even set a date and we’re, let’s 295 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,200 see, it’s already March 10th or is it a, yeah, the tenth today 296 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,600 and he hasn’t even set the date for it, you know, and I was 297 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:28,467 hoping to attend I mean, I really, I mean, okay. So, first 298 00:22:28,467 --> 00:22:32,167 of all, John Casey is a pawn. He’s a puppet. He has no power, 299 00:22:32,167 --> 00:22:37,801 okay? He pretends to but he’s been ignoring the crimes of the 300 00:22:37,801 --> 00:22:42,934 trial courts for years, okay? And we’re talking the SJC has 301 00:22:42,934 --> 00:22:45,800 been ignoring it. Even Kimberly Budd who a lot of people 302 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,400 actually like her. She’s a nice woman but I think she turns the 303 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:52,567 other way constantly and Paula Carey, well, we know, you know, 304 00:22:52,567 --> 00:22:55,433 her stepping down to go kayaking was no accident. Okay, 305 00:22:55,433 --> 00:22:57,967 there’s a lot, there’s a lot happening You see, you’re 306 00:22:57,967 --> 00:23:00,734 seeing people move around, You’re seeing people leave. I 307 00:23:00,734 --> 00:23:04,433 mean, you know, Marilyn Wellington who runs the Bar of 308 00:23:04,433 --> 00:23:07,534 Examiners. She’s she’s leaving. She thinks she’s getting a 309 00:23:07,534 --> 00:23:09,634 better job with the national company but we’re about to put 310 00:23:09,634 --> 00:23:16,534 a stop to that. So, anyway, you know, like he got all hot on 311 00:23:16,534 --> 00:23:19,467 the collar because I guess other people found out about 312 00:23:19,467 --> 00:23:23,200 this meeting with him and when it was never a secret. So, I 313 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:27,534 mean, he’s he’s just, you know, he’s kind of he’s just useless. 314 00:23:27,534 --> 00:23:32,634 So, yes, John Casey could use a a pack of depends. Absolutely. 315 00:23:32,634 --> 00:23:40,734 And who else? What else was I thinking? Um 316 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:46,434 Oh, so there’s going to be, it’s probably going to be 317 00:23:46,434 --> 00:23:51,300 tomorrow, finally? Okay, we’ve been waiting for a certain 318 00:23:51,300 --> 00:23:56,700 filing to come out that is going to be a really big deal. 319 00:23:56,700 --> 00:24:02,366 It’s going to roll heads like 66 people in the trial courts 320 00:24:02,366 --> 00:24:07,134 are implicated with evidence of crimes that they’ve committed. 321 00:24:07,134 --> 00:24:12,800 So, if anybody wants a copy, once this is released, okay? 322 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:17,834 Um, I’m going to be the one to disseminate it and I’m very, I 323 00:24:17,834 --> 00:24:23,234 feel very honored that I’m I’m mentioned in this filing like 324 00:24:23,234 --> 00:24:27,067 100 times I guess because of the advocacy I’ve been doing. 325 00:24:27,067 --> 00:24:29,900 And I become very close with this person now. We’re we’ve 326 00:24:29,900 --> 00:24:36,833 become good friends and and so my job is to get it out to 327 00:24:36,833 --> 00:24:40,733 media and to get it out to everybody I possibly can. So if 328 00:24:40,733 --> 00:24:44,333 anybody wants a copy of this filing. Now it’s a very very 329 00:24:44,333 --> 00:24:47,234 long filing. You don’t have to read the whole thing. But what 330 00:24:47,234 --> 00:24:51,234 chances are once you start reading what’s being implicated 331 00:24:51,234 --> 00:24:54,734 alleged with evidence. You’ll want to keep, you’ll probably 332 00:24:54,734 --> 00:24:58,200 want to keep going. And then we’re hoping that it won’t take 333 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:03,200 long to get some national coverage. And and that the the 334 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,000 **** show will start making changes. They, they won’t have 335 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,934 a choice, essentially. The crime spree will have to start 336 00:25:08,934 --> 00:25:14,234 changing. There, those who have to start following the law, and 337 00:25:14,234 --> 00:25:17,800 there’s certain people that will meet with their demise 338 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,234 because of the crimes they’ve committed. So, we’re looking 339 00:25:20,234 --> 00:25:23,867 forward to this. So, if anybody wants a copy of that, Email me 340 00:25:23,867 --> 00:25:32,400 or message me. Your your Email. You’re all on my list already. 341 00:25:33,634 --> 00:25:36,833 You know me, I go viral with everything I can. So don’t 342 00:25:36,833 --> 00:25:39,600 worry. But it’s appreciated because you know a lot of 343 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,966 people don’t have that backbone to have a a voice you know and 344 00:25:43,966 --> 00:25:47,966 they need somebody to they need to see somebody be that voice 345 00:25:47,966 --> 00:25:51,200 before they feel as though they can have a voice of their own. 346 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,301 And I I feel as though you’re going to help a lot of people 347 00:25:54,301 --> 00:25:58,600 in that in that aspect. So I appreciate you. So I hope so. 348 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,000 And what I try to tell people is when somebody violates your 349 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:07,467 rights or violates the law. Don’t take it lying down like a 350 00:26:07,467 --> 00:26:11,100 dog. They’re criminals. A lot of people do nowadays. They 351 00:26:11,100 --> 00:26:13,834 take it and they roll over. Turn the other cheeks. No. Not 352 00:26:13,834 --> 00:26:16,734 when it’s your rights. Put the **** underneath your shoe. 353 00:26:16,734 --> 00:26:20,534 Don’t be afraid of that. What’s my favorite saying? You have 354 00:26:20,534 --> 00:26:23,266 rights and if we don’t use them, we lose them. So, we need 355 00:26:23,266 --> 00:26:28,301 to use our rights before we lose them. Amen. Amen. Yes, 356 00:26:28,301 --> 00:26:33,967 Kayla. Thank you. So that’ll be exciting. I’ll let you all know 357 00:26:33,967 --> 00:26:39,100 when the when the I hate to use the bomb word but it’s a it is. 358 00:26:39,100 --> 00:26:41,801 It’s a legal bomb. When the bomb flies the bomb’s going to 359 00:26:41,801 --> 00:26:44,800 fly. I’ll let you know when. You’re going to let us know 360 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:49,334 when the fat lady sings? Yeah that’s it. Yeah yeah. Yep. Cuz 361 00:26:49,334 --> 00:26:53,767 it ain’t over until the fat lady sings. That’s right. And 362 00:26:53,767 --> 00:26:57,234 that’s that’s that’s the thing. A quote. That’s not being 363 00:26:57,234 --> 00:27:00,267 offensive or anything. Just so people know. Oh. I’m not 364 00:27:00,267 --> 00:27:06,300 offended. got a gut but look I did too. so. Hey let that **** 365 00:27:06,300 --> 00:27:12,534 go. I love that shirt. I bought for myself after my kids were 366 00:27:12,534 --> 00:27:18,900 kidnapped. There you go. At my favorite rock store because you 367 00:27:18,900 --> 00:27:22,833 know I love rock. So, I I I forgot to mention this earlier. 368 00:27:22,833 --> 00:27:30,366 Um I do have some very exciting news. Um I got an email today. 369 00:27:30,366 --> 00:27:36,134 So, I was going to bring that up in me one moment. I’ll share 370 00:27:36,134 --> 00:27:40,834 it with everybody. and then I’ll post it on our page. It’s 371 00:27:40,834 --> 00:27:44,768 really really exciting. I was I missed it at first when I first 372 00:27:44,768 --> 00:27:47,734 said I read it really quickly but then when Kayla told me to 373 00:27:47,734 --> 00:27:53,067 slow down and read it, I got super excited. So, I can’t 374 00:27:53,067 --> 00:27:56,234 wait. I’m definitely excited to be able to share it with 375 00:27:56,234 --> 00:27:59,301 everybody. Um and just this little bit of time that we’ve 376 00:27:59,301 --> 00:28:02,400 started this and the the huge accomplishments that we’ve 377 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:08,867 already gotten, you know, Excellent. So super exciting 378 00:28:08,867 --> 00:28:12,000 things. 379 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:24,400 go ahead and screen share this. Can everyone see this? 380 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:30,134 So, I got an Email 381 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:36,000 about the documentary interview that I was featured in. My 382 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:41,300 family was featured in. Yup. Um that premiered from February 383 00:28:41,300 --> 00:28:47,267 third I’ll be sending this out and it’ll be on our page. Um 384 00:28:47,267 --> 00:28:53,867 this is the the full video right here. And then these are 385 00:28:53,867 --> 00:28:57,801 other short little videos that’s all in the full video 386 00:28:57,801 --> 00:29:01,767 but if you just wanted to watch certain little short sections. 387 00:29:01,767 --> 00:29:08,101 Um these are the two videos and then there’s other videos that 388 00:29:08,101 --> 00:29:12,601 the family project had created and that can be watched on 389 00:29:12,601 --> 00:29:17,334 YouTube. And then they also have two articles that was 390 00:29:17,334 --> 00:29:23,067 published through the Sculpt Boston and then they did give 391 00:29:23,067 --> 00:29:29,268 out some shout outs to the Citizens for Juvenile Justice. 392 00:29:29,268 --> 00:29:33,600 Um also with 393 00:29:34,234 --> 00:29:39,467 center for Public Interest Advocacy and collaborations, 394 00:29:39,467 --> 00:29:45,268 Cradle to Prison Pipeline Project, and then also to the 395 00:29:45,268 --> 00:29:51,268 organizations of Family Matters and Proactive Families Advocacy 396 00:29:51,268 --> 00:30:00,733 and Together We Soar. Um so, this is a follow-up Email from 397 00:30:00,733 --> 00:30:03,833 the premiere. So, I’m going to go ahead and send that all out 398 00:30:03,833 --> 00:30:09,067 after we’re done. Um so, I’m very excited to share this with 399 00:30:09,067 --> 00:30:15,467 everybody. Um and then also to say thank you and to show 400 00:30:15,467 --> 00:30:24,534 support to Family Matters and also to the journalist at 401 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:31,467 Northeastern University Um so I I love it. So, I hope everybody 402 00:30:31,467 --> 00:30:35,467 else loves it. That’s great. Congratulations. That’s 403 00:30:35,467 --> 00:30:39,268 wonderful. Now, did they make any mention to Proactive 404 00:30:39,268 --> 00:30:43,766 Families? Yes, it’s right here. Alright, that’s huge. You 405 00:30:43,766 --> 00:30:47,600 forgot to mention that little piece there, girlfriend. Oh, I 406 00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:51,966 thought I did. I don’t think you did. Yep, and then you can 407 00:30:51,966 --> 00:30:55,533 also follow Taylor. She’s on Twitter and Instagram. She’s 408 00:30:55,533 --> 00:31:01,301 working She’s a journalist. Uh she’s in college. So, she’s 409 00:31:01,301 --> 00:31:08,766 awesome. She is awesome. Oh, wonderful. Wonderful. And I I 410 00:31:08,766 --> 00:31:11,966 don’t know what’s, you know, what they have planned for in 411 00:31:11,966 --> 00:31:16,700 the future. They plan on doing more stories or not but I know 412 00:31:16,700 --> 00:31:21,067 we’ll definitely be in touch. 413 00:31:21,734 --> 00:31:24,534 Excellent. Congratulations. That’s wonderful. I can’t wait 414 00:31:24,534 --> 00:31:27,534 to I’m going to sign on and take a look at those other 415 00:31:27,534 --> 00:31:30,634 videos and watch yours again. That’s on your that’s on the 416 00:31:30,634 --> 00:31:33,666 website. Did you put that on the website? Not yet. I’m 417 00:31:33,666 --> 00:31:36,766 going to put that on the website. I’ll put that on our 418 00:31:36,766 --> 00:31:44,067 social media so that way it’s available and easy to find. 419 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:49,034 Yeah, it was definitely a great documentary if anybody missed 420 00:31:49,034 --> 00:31:53,100 out on it when it did air. Um go ahead and check it out as 421 00:31:53,100 --> 00:31:58,934 soon as we get it posted. Um it was definitely eye-opening for 422 00:31:58,934 --> 00:32:02,934 me. Uh I know definitely be eye opening for other people and 423 00:32:02,934 --> 00:32:08,234 help other people in their situations. Okay. Totally. Yes. 424 00:32:08,234 --> 00:32:14,767 That’s one. Yup. We are advocating and speaking up. we 425 00:32:14,767 --> 00:32:21,334 need some lots of changes with the new system. I mean, I I 426 00:32:21,334 --> 00:32:27,967 say, you know, this change has been long overdue where when 427 00:32:27,967 --> 00:32:32,467 was the last time that the the adoption families first act? 428 00:32:32,467 --> 00:32:35,666 When was that? When was the last time that was updated? 429 00:32:35,666 --> 00:32:40,366 Aspa? Yeah. I don’t know. That’s a good question. We 430 00:32:40,366 --> 00:32:43,967 should get a recent copy of it actually on the page and maybe 431 00:32:43,967 --> 00:32:50,634 even on your website. Yay out because that that policy, that 432 00:32:50,634 --> 00:32:55,600 law is so outdated. What is the what is the law we’re looking 433 00:32:55,600 --> 00:33:02,667 for? Uh Aspa, it’s the American Say Families Act, you know, the 434 00:33:02,667 --> 00:33:07,800 the one that allows the kidnapping to occur. Okay. 435 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:11,767 Originally, they they made this into law because of all the 436 00:33:11,767 --> 00:33:16,333 children that was in foster care and pretty much not going 437 00:33:16,333 --> 00:33:22,400 home and to get kids put into, you know, home, they came up 438 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:28,733 with the adoption incentive where it pushes them to get the 439 00:33:28,733 --> 00:33:32,766 kids into homes and get adopted. Um unfortunately, I 440 00:33:32,766 --> 00:33:36,200 don’t think we were thinking far into the future when this 441 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,366 bill was created and passed that it would be taken 442 00:33:39,366 --> 00:33:45,467 advantage of. Well, Hillary was. And I’m just praying she’s 443 00:33:45,467 --> 00:33:48,934 already been executed. But yeah she she was thinking. She knew 444 00:33:48,934 --> 00:33:54,268 what she was doing. I mean, Republicans and Democrats 445 00:33:54,268 --> 00:33:59,301 passed that bill but it I’m sure it was misrepresented and 446 00:33:59,301 --> 00:34:04,934 the the ones who really going were behind it. That’s my take. 447 00:34:04,934 --> 00:34:10,400 Yeah, I think we need to get that bill updated. Yeah, or 448 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,834 polished. Well, they need to change it where they can 449 00:34:13,834 --> 00:34:16,534 incentivize children going back home to their families instead 450 00:34:16,534 --> 00:34:18,800 of adoption. And the whole thing with kinship being 451 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:24,267 constantly constantly rejected. It’s just, it’s just so 452 00:34:24,267 --> 00:34:30,234 frustrating. I mean, I just had a good friend you know, their 453 00:34:30,234 --> 00:34:35,134 little one is, you know, they have proof that foster parents 454 00:34:35,134 --> 00:34:39,834 on drugs. Proof. Proof. Alright, proof, okay? There’s a 455 00:34:39,834 --> 00:34:46,834 very healthy, loving family, okay? The mother is no longer 456 00:34:48,833 --> 00:34:51,900 I, I, one, one of them, there’s a, there was a couple of kids 457 00:34:51,900 --> 00:34:53,966 from the family. So, I don’t know if it’s this child’s 458 00:34:53,966 --> 00:34:58,134 mother that’s no longer living or if she’s just really having 459 00:34:58,134 --> 00:35:01,666 a hard time fighting this battle, she’s sort of passive, 460 00:35:01,666 --> 00:35:08,634 but but the judge just like gives no finding a fact and 461 00:35:08,634 --> 00:35:13,701 denies it. Denies their motion for guardianship. No finding a 462 00:35:13,701 --> 00:35:17,701 fact, you’re not going to give a family at least a finding a 463 00:35:17,701 --> 00:35:21,100 fact as to why you’re not granting them guardianship of 464 00:35:21,100 --> 00:35:25,600 their own flesh and blood. Like when the foster parents got 465 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,834 positive drug tests and they know that she’s on drugs. I 466 00:35:29,834 --> 00:35:34,733 just it’s it’s, the system is so broken. It’s so broken. So, 467 00:35:34,733 --> 00:35:38,167 it’s good to, yes, we need to do a lot of reform, but 468 00:35:38,167 --> 00:35:41,366 honestly, some people just don’t need to go to jail. Yeah, 469 00:35:41,366 --> 00:35:45,434 I mean, there’s really, you know, bad people, bad parents 470 00:35:45,434 --> 00:35:52,901 out there. I mean, that are really hurting their kids. And 471 00:35:56,468 --> 00:35:59,467 foster kids and yeah, it’s not being fully investigated 472 00:35:59,467 --> 00:36:03,200 because it’s continuing to happen. Go ahead. One of the 473 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:08,766 biggest problems is resources are wasted, harassing, and 474 00:36:08,766 --> 00:36:14,467 snatching children from good parents. When those resources 475 00:36:14,467 --> 00:36:18,234 You’re on mute. I don’t know what that was. My phone was 476 00:36:18,234 --> 00:36:22,534 just but no, that’s that’s one of the problems is they waste 477 00:36:22,534 --> 00:36:27,334 the resources harassing their parents needlessly and taking 478 00:36:27,334 --> 00:36:30,667 other children that don’t need to be taken. Instead of 479 00:36:30,667 --> 00:36:33,067 actually spending the resources, helping the kids 480 00:36:33,067 --> 00:36:36,934 that do. The children where there’s a million different 51 481 00:36:36,934 --> 00:36:42,800 A reports because there it’s obvious abuse. The the the the 482 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:47,966 little they made a documentary. I can’t remember his name right 483 00:36:47,966 --> 00:36:52,400 now. On Netflix about him. His the whole trial about how his 484 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,467 mom 485 00:36:55,701 --> 00:37:01,301 yes. Um like dude there was so many signs. Come on. Y’all 486 00:37:01,301 --> 00:37:06,934 wasted resources harassing other parents like us. Instead 487 00:37:06,934 --> 00:37:10,366 of saving that child instead. Cuz that’s not the goal for 488 00:37:10,366 --> 00:37:13,301 them. That’s not the goal. The goal is how much federal money 489 00:37:13,301 --> 00:37:16,134 will they get per head per child. That’s the goal. It’s 490 00:37:16,134 --> 00:37:21,467 all mine based. you know, it needs to be rebuilt to the 491 00:37:21,467 --> 00:37:24,234 point where they’re sad. How many of those children need to 492 00:37:24,234 --> 00:37:29,234 basically be sacrificed before things change? That’s exactly 493 00:37:29,234 --> 00:37:32,667 what’s happening. Exactly. Exactly. I hate saying it. It’s 494 00:37:32,667 --> 00:37:35,666 disgusting but that’s that’s what it is. And when you look 495 00:37:35,666 --> 00:37:39,734 at the numbers of children that are trafficked from DCF and 496 00:37:39,734 --> 00:37:43,834 CPS, it’s really, it’s so disturbing. It’s not. Like, 80 497 00:37:43,834 --> 00:37:47,334 something percent. It’s not a statistic that can be argued to 498 00:37:47,334 --> 00:37:52,467 us. It just can’t. No. Like when you see that statistic, it 499 00:37:52,467 --> 00:37:57,668 means something’s wrong. 80% of foster children, 84%, I believe 500 00:37:57,668 --> 00:38:02,800 it is, exactly. Um 84% of foster children are being sex. 501 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:08,400 What? Hm. So, that means what? Like the 20% of kids that 502 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:13,234 actually go home to someone in their biological family, aunt, 503 00:38:13,234 --> 00:38:16,000 cousin, uncle, grandparent, whoever. Those are the kids 504 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:21,467 that basically don’t. Like that tells you enough right there. 505 00:38:21,467 --> 00:38:26,267 All the kids should go home then. Yep. Like I got pictures 506 00:38:26,267 --> 00:38:30,534 of my children with the foster parents. And the foster fathers 507 00:38:30,534 --> 00:38:35,867 literally standing right there throwing up a gun sign. but I’m 508 00:38:35,867 --> 00:38:41,234 not even allowed pictures of my children But they can post it 509 00:38:41,234 --> 00:38:43,966 all on Facebook when there’s a court order saying they’re not 510 00:38:43,966 --> 00:38:49,367 supposed to. Not only a court order but there’s also a law. 511 00:38:49,367 --> 00:38:52,766 There’s a law. Saying that they’re not supposed to. But 512 00:38:52,766 --> 00:38:56,634 because of this situation with me and my kids and my ex, there 513 00:38:56,634 --> 00:39:01,268 was a specific court order put on that they are not supposed 514 00:39:01,268 --> 00:39:05,567 to be put onto social media for their safety because of my ex. 515 00:39:05,567 --> 00:39:10,467 And the lost her mother. She says, basically, it’s okay if 516 00:39:10,467 --> 00:39:13,367 it’s like her and her husband, they don’t post nothing on my 517 00:39:13,367 --> 00:39:16,534 kids but everyone else in their family does. It’s the same 518 00:39:16,534 --> 00:39:21,966 thing. I’m not allowed. You guys refuse to send me monthly 519 00:39:21,966 --> 00:39:25,200 pictures of my children. You refuse to send me any form of 520 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:29,934 update on my children. But yet your family’s posting them all 521 00:39:29,934 --> 00:39:34,467 over social media. Against the court order and a law. So the 522 00:39:34,467 --> 00:39:37,900 only updates you get is when they break the law. Only 523 00:39:37,900 --> 00:39:41,700 they’re disturbing updates. I mean. Yeah. That’s really 524 00:39:41,700 --> 00:39:45,001 that’s really. 525 00:39:45,068 --> 00:39:48,434 Like the foster mother just like one of my friends just 526 00:39:48,434 --> 00:39:52,334 messaged her the other day. I was like yo just like no drama. 527 00:39:52,334 --> 00:39:55,934 Like leave the kids out of it. But just message Tiffany and be 528 00:39:55,934 --> 00:39:59,967 like yo like give her an update or something. She said to my 529 00:39:59,967 --> 00:40:02,934 friend I have nothing personal against it. Then why did you 530 00:40:02,934 --> 00:40:06,800 why have you personally alienated, coached, and 531 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:10,400 brainwashed my children? 532 00:40:10,734 --> 00:40:18,667 I remember it surprised me when I learned that parents who are 533 00:40:18,667 --> 00:40:23,033 fighting the system of of CPS, DCF to get their children back 534 00:40:23,033 --> 00:40:26,900 are being alienated from their children by the foster parents 535 00:40:26,900 --> 00:40:31,901 NDCF. I mean, I I remember like like to take a moment, think 536 00:40:31,901 --> 00:40:35,833 about that, you know? I mean, typical I call it basically 537 00:40:35,833 --> 00:40:38,267 like typical parent parental alienation is like your 538 00:40:38,267 --> 00:40:42,200 situation between you and your ex. Where she drags the system 539 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:46,400 into it to hurt you. Mm hmm. For situation like mine, I call 540 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,266 it systematic parental alienation. Where it’s the 541 00:40:49,266 --> 00:40:53,233 system literally doing it purposely to try to sever the 542 00:40:53,233 --> 00:40:57,366 bond between the children and the biological families. And 543 00:40:57,366 --> 00:41:00,766 it’s all called institutional betrayal trauma. Because it’s 544 00:41:00,766 --> 00:41:04,667 called institutional work for us and work for the children. 545 00:41:04,667 --> 00:41:07,668 And they don’t they don’t. Oh you know what’s where there 546 00:41:07,668 --> 00:41:13,434 where consumers? Right. Well I know. She told the judgement. 547 00:41:13,434 --> 00:41:19,067 Court that was her consumer. I’m like no, my ex paid you 548 00:41:19,067 --> 00:41:23,600 off. I didn’t pay you off. I mean, Darlene, she’s messaged 549 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,934 Plymouth on my behalf and and taunting court people on my 550 00:41:26,934 --> 00:41:30,201 behalf through Emails. You want to know the responses I 551 00:41:30,201 --> 00:41:32,868 got? That was fun. Come on. Just getting outside 552 00:41:32,868 --> 00:41:37,067 interference. We will put a gag order on her. On YouTube? I go 553 00:41:37,067 --> 00:41:41,167 around. On you? Because I, yeah, they threatened to put a 554 00:41:41,167 --> 00:41:45,700 gag order on me because they said I had outside interference 555 00:41:45,700 --> 00:41:48,534 communicating with them. Because I had other advocates. 556 00:41:48,534 --> 00:41:51,266 Sorry, but gag orders are unconstitutional. So. I look at 557 00:41:51,266 --> 00:41:55,333 it. I looked right at him and I said, gag me. La la la la Like, 558 00:41:55,333 --> 00:42:02,967 do it. Like, that’s a form of foreplay, I think. 559 00:42:03,234 --> 00:42:06,600 Yeah and a violation of constitutional rights so. Yeah. 560 00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,534 They can kiss my **** your **** and everybody else’s **** 561 00:42:09,534 --> 00:42:13,834 because I always say that. The court ever tries to gag me? 562 00:42:13,834 --> 00:42:16,301 Fine. Put me in jail. I’m going to break it and then 563 00:42:16,301 --> 00:42:19,601 we’ll have a huge federal lawsuit. So let’s let’s do it. 564 00:42:19,601 --> 00:42:26,700 Let’s go. Next. Yeah. Not a problem. Not a problem. 565 00:42:28,333 --> 00:42:31,734 We got freedom of speech. We have freedom of speech. It’s 566 00:42:31,734 --> 00:42:36,901 our constitutional right. intended, violated. They are 567 00:42:36,901 --> 00:42:41,600 deliberately spitting on the faces of hundreds of thousands 568 00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:44,200 of men and women who have died sacrificing for this country. 569 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:49,100 Uh huh. Yup. Well, as long as we threatening or making any 570 00:42:49,100 --> 00:42:54,567 harmful acts towards other people, we can, we got freedom 571 00:42:54,567 --> 00:42:58,534 of speech. I mean, can’t say that it ain’t going to hurt 572 00:42:58,534 --> 00:43:02,400 other people’s feelings. Right. You know, that’s the problem. 573 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:05,368 You gotta wear it. They’re all two sensitive and they don’t 574 00:43:05,368 --> 00:43:08,700 they can’t understand Everyone’s entitled to an 575 00:43:08,700 --> 00:43:11,667 opinion. Because they have a God complex as if they can do 576 00:43:11,667 --> 00:43:15,268 nothing wrong when they’re the real criminal. But I posted 577 00:43:15,268 --> 00:43:19,467 I’ll tag a couple of you in it or three of you in it. I posted 578 00:43:19,467 --> 00:43:25,434 a video of a ex- police officer who was disabled and a vet 579 00:43:25,434 --> 00:43:28,934 veteran. And he’s totally getting screwed. Totally 580 00:43:28,934 --> 00:43:32,400 getting screwed by the court. It was it was such a heartfelt 581 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:36,167 tearful like plea that he made for his child who’s being 582 00:43:36,167 --> 00:43:39,200 outright abused and of course it’s all being ignored by 583 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:44,667 family court and CPS. so. Oh yeah. They they just won’t be 584 00:43:44,667 --> 00:43:46,967 abusers because that’s who they are. That’s really what it 585 00:43:46,967 --> 00:43:50,134 comes to. 586 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,434 It’s, you know what? Well, you know what I find a funny when 587 00:43:58,434 --> 00:44:02,234 it comes to that is they they favor the abuser, right? But 588 00:44:02,234 --> 00:44:07,034 yet, we get penalized for being in abusive relationship. Yeah, 589 00:44:07,034 --> 00:44:12,934 they blame us for it. They they they victimize. He beat the 590 00:44:12,934 --> 00:44:16,700 hell out of you. Yes. And it’s our fault. We get charged with 591 00:44:16,700 --> 00:44:19,734 neglect. It’s our fault for fighting back. Because we just 592 00:44:19,734 --> 00:44:23,701 beat beat up beat up or hit or whatever it is from our 593 00:44:23,701 --> 00:44:27,966 significant other. And now it our fault. Again, yes, there 594 00:44:27,966 --> 00:44:30,800 are signs that could lead up to it. So, again, you’re 595 00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:34,901 irresponsible if you ignore the signs. So, then, I can see 596 00:44:34,901 --> 00:44:38,934 where that’s but if it’s a sporadic thing that it never 597 00:44:38,934 --> 00:44:42,934 happened and these people are losing their kids, from it, I 598 00:44:42,934 --> 00:44:46,868 think is a little bit ridiculous. Yeah. Yeah, but you 599 00:44:46,868 --> 00:44:52,534 know what? It’s not that people ignore the signs. Gives me a 600 00:44:52,534 --> 00:44:56,300 food in my mouth but I really comment and say, it’s that, 601 00:44:56,300 --> 00:45:00,500 there’s a, there’s a certain thing that occurs when you are 602 00:45:00,500 --> 00:45:05,334 in an abusive relationship. And it’s very scary and very hard 603 00:45:05,334 --> 00:45:10,967 to leave. And when you finally make that decision to do what’s 604 00:45:10,967 --> 00:45:14,300 good for you and of course for your children. Then you get 605 00:45:14,300 --> 00:45:19,767 abused by the system for doing that. Mhm. 606 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:24,633 Just just the other day was my literally five years of leaving 607 00:45:24,633 --> 00:45:29,267 my ex and I could tell you that was the scariest day of my life 608 00:45:29,267 --> 00:45:33,268 making that decision. The trip back here from Indiana, all the 609 00:45:33,268 --> 00:45:35,967 bus stops, the layovers, watching over my back and 610 00:45:35,967 --> 00:45:39,067 shoulder. I didn’t sleep for almost four and a half days 611 00:45:39,067 --> 00:45:42,300 because I was terrified. He was following us. Oh my gosh. Like 612 00:45:42,300 --> 00:45:46,534 it’s it was the worst **** time of my life. My stepdad he had 613 00:45:46,534 --> 00:45:49,301 me and the kids at his house for as as long as he could keep 614 00:45:49,301 --> 00:45:53,268 us there. And our first there. He was like, don’t worry about 615 00:45:53,268 --> 00:45:56,400 the kids. We got them. Go go take a nap. And then when he 616 00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,301 came to wake me up to say, hey, we fed the kids dinner. You 617 00:45:59,301 --> 00:46:01,800 want to get up and give them baths and get them ready for 618 00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:07,467 bed? He said, he was instantly, instantly pissed off because 619 00:46:07,467 --> 00:46:12,234 you don’t jump from like three feet off the floor, six feet in 620 00:46:12,234 --> 00:46:16,534 the air, literally clinging to the ceiling. Like a bomb just 621 00:46:16,534 --> 00:46:19,368 went off and he’s like, you were going to say that. I knew 622 00:46:19,368 --> 00:46:22,400 I’ve tried balling that night and my stepdad got on the phone 623 00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:26,667 with him and was like, if you ever even think about my 624 00:46:26,667 --> 00:46:29,467 daughter or my grandbabies again, that’s it. My dad, my my 625 00:46:29,467 --> 00:46:34,267 dad is a very passive man. But his babies, that’s it. That’s, 626 00:46:34,267 --> 00:46:37,300 that’s where he draws the lines. I’m so glad you had that 627 00:46:37,300 --> 00:46:39,734 family support when she got up here. And I knew you were 628 00:46:39,734 --> 00:46:41,866 going to say that, that he’s just woke you up and scared the 629 00:46:41,866 --> 00:46:44,733 living **** out of you. Yeah. Because you’re, you’re, you’re, 630 00:46:44,733 --> 00:46:50,634 your starter reflex is so strong that going from sleep to 631 00:46:50,634 --> 00:46:54,700 being tapped on the shoulders is makes you hit the ceiling. 632 00:46:54,700 --> 00:46:58,534 Yeah. And it’s it’s it’s it’s hard. But only all he did was 633 00:46:58,534 --> 00:47:02,600 really just a quick like tap on my foot. Like and then jumped 634 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:06,633 back. Like because he wasn’t expecting I scared the hell out 635 00:47:06,633 --> 00:47:09,600 of him. Cuz he scared the hell out of me. Right. Yeah. No 636 00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:15,634 doubt. No doubt. Yeah. I mean. Not for nothing. Five years 637 00:47:15,634 --> 00:47:27,701 later. Yeah, it’s really And I still sleep with Hold on. I got 638 00:47:27,701 --> 00:47:30,767 two swords sticking out of my side of the bed right there. 639 00:47:30,767 --> 00:47:39,067 Oh, wow. Yeah. Something’s never leave you. No. I was 640 00:47:39,067 --> 00:47:44,868 doing good for all trauma. And with PTSD. That recent issue 641 00:47:44,868 --> 00:47:47,200 with the attorneys notes and everything and the concern of 642 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:52,534 my yeah. That set me back to where I haven’t taken them out 643 00:47:52,534 --> 00:47:57,168 from under my bed yet. PMDR, if you can find out, there’s 644 00:47:57,168 --> 00:48:00,767 there’s a program and there’s a couple locations in 645 00:48:00,767 --> 00:48:02,400 Massachusetts that might be really good for people and this 646 00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,733 might be something at some point, Kayla, to find a way to 647 00:48:06,733 --> 00:48:11,200 incorporate with people who are willing to donate time people 648 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:16,334 who, you know, need to do some time with clients before 649 00:48:16,334 --> 00:48:23,268 they’re fully licensed is EMDR, there’s, it’s called the Child 650 00:48:23,268 --> 00:48:28,833 Trauma Institute, and I was able because of my status, I 651 00:48:28,833 --> 00:48:33,001 was able to get a, do a free program with them. Now, they 652 00:48:33,001 --> 00:48:36,433 say it’s a week, but we actually took 9 days. And I 653 00:48:36,433 --> 00:48:38,334 can’t tell you how much it helped. It helped in a huge 654 00:48:38,334 --> 00:48:42,733 way. Now, it won’t say that once you abuse escalated again 655 00:48:42,733 --> 00:48:46,400 I filed my modification and my false accusations that you 656 00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:49,333 don’t, I mean, you still get some anxiety and you still get 657 00:48:49,333 --> 00:48:52,967 triggered but it’s different. It just changes. You can handle 658 00:48:52,967 --> 00:48:55,967 it but you can process things better as you’re going through 659 00:48:55,967 --> 00:48:58,868 it. So, I would seriously encourage you, Tiffany, and 660 00:48:58,868 --> 00:49:03,500 anybody who’s dealing with trauma to really look into 661 00:49:03,500 --> 00:49:07,134 discounted or free programs of EMDR and I would highly 662 00:49:07,134 --> 00:49:10,534 recommend including that at some point in a list of 663 00:49:10,534 --> 00:49:13,467 practitioners. You know, you could go to an MDR Institute 664 00:49:13,467 --> 00:49:18,901 and find out, you know, do you have your your trainees do any, 665 00:49:18,901 --> 00:49:22,868 you know, hours with people before they’re fully licensed 666 00:49:22,868 --> 00:49:27,234 and we have an organization that we would love to have some 667 00:49:27,234 --> 00:49:32,367 of your students work with some of our, our, our, you know, 668 00:49:32,367 --> 00:49:36,468 clients who are, dealing with trauma, that might be something 669 00:49:36,468 --> 00:49:41,300 you could do. Yeah, I did Yeah. I did some domestic violence 670 00:49:41,300 --> 00:49:44,934 trauma like victims, groups, and support and trainings and 671 00:49:44,934 --> 00:49:50,300 stuff like that. Um almost like two years after I got back from 672 00:49:50,300 --> 00:49:54,366 Indiana and I left him. Um but that was one thing actually I 673 00:49:54,366 --> 00:49:59,234 was hoping possibly to start is doing maybe a domestic support 674 00:49:59,234 --> 00:50:03,234 group. People who are still being active are still in an 675 00:50:03,234 --> 00:50:06,567 active domestic relationship that they just need a weekly 676 00:50:06,567 --> 00:50:09,934 group where they can have no judgement and just cry about 677 00:50:09,934 --> 00:50:12,834 anything. They can get the support if they need it. We can 678 00:50:12,834 --> 00:50:15,567 make safety plans to get them out of there. They if that’s 679 00:50:15,567 --> 00:50:18,800 what they choose. But at the same time if they are not ready 680 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:24,000 to leave at least just give them that support to where they 681 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,567 know when that timer is right, they can still do it. Yeah, 682 00:50:26,567 --> 00:50:30,334 help them. And like you said, having that, that plan of safe 683 00:50:30,334 --> 00:50:35,333 care in place, that’s what they should really put employment in 684 00:50:35,333 --> 00:50:38,400 the kids left. I had a few friends up here in like around 685 00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:42,400 the country. They basically put plans into play for me. I had a 686 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,967 friend who lives in Alaska where his wife and they 687 00:50:45,967 --> 00:50:49,234 basically ordered plane tickets from Alaska under her name? And 688 00:50:49,234 --> 00:50:55,301 then land in Massachusetts and then three other tickets to go 689 00:50:55,301 --> 00:50:58,034 all through from Boston, all over the country under my name 690 00:50:58,034 --> 00:51:01,966 that wasn’t going to get used. But they they had the plans to 691 00:51:01,966 --> 00:51:06,400 to lead trails around the country if need be. His brother 692 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:10,800 met me at the train station. At three o’clock in the morning 693 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:15,434 with their cousin. The day me and the kids got off the bus. 694 00:51:15,434 --> 00:51:18,101 Like they like they had me checking in with them every 30 695 00:51:18,101 --> 00:51:21,801 minutes. If I didn’t respond back to a message within 45 696 00:51:21,801 --> 00:51:26,400 minutes they would have to my location on my phone and 697 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,868 instantly alerted the police. Like they were not playing 698 00:51:28,868 --> 00:51:31,767 around with me and my kid. This is their ex’s brother that was 699 00:51:31,767 --> 00:51:36,867 supportive? No this was at one of my exes from like years, 700 00:51:36,867 --> 00:51:41,267 years ago. Um I I’ve known these kids since basically I 701 00:51:41,267 --> 00:51:44,000 was fourteen and in foster care. They’ve saved my life 702 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:48,668 more times than I care to admit. and when they knew I was 703 00:51:48,668 --> 00:51:53,134 trying to get out of Indiana, they instantly just Mm hmm. 704 00:51:53,134 --> 00:51:57,300 They’re my guardian angels. Mm hmm. they they they made plans 705 00:51:57,300 --> 00:52:00,234 and stuff like that and put it all into place and to this day 706 00:52:00,234 --> 00:52:05,667 I owe them my life and the life of my kids 10 times. Yeah. 707 00:52:05,667 --> 00:52:11,300 Wonderful. But I I I try to do that if God forbid I come 708 00:52:11,300 --> 00:52:13,134 across someone who’s in a situation similar to what I 709 00:52:13,134 --> 00:52:15,966 was. I try to do it. I try to learn like things that I’ve 710 00:52:15,966 --> 00:52:19,034 learned in some of the training classes and and support groups 711 00:52:19,034 --> 00:52:23,200 myself. But I want to try and start doing it more. 712 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:29,367 Absolutely. Possibly like a once a week. Maybe on a Sunday 713 00:52:29,367 --> 00:52:32,400 afternoon. 714 00:52:32,634 --> 00:52:38,633 Zoom meeting for like victims of of abuse. you know, I was 715 00:52:38,633 --> 00:52:45,767 just playing. The whole room all day today. Um we should try 716 00:52:45,767 --> 00:52:49,767 to invite people. I was just looking at, you know, the 717 00:52:49,767 --> 00:52:53,201 invite button and we should try to invite people to the Zoom 718 00:52:53,201 --> 00:52:55,967 call. I mean, I’m sure this is going to get lots of coverage 719 00:52:55,967 --> 00:53:01,034 and and views on on the page itself. But we should invite 720 00:53:01,034 --> 00:53:04,000 people. You know, people who like especially like you ladies 721 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:07,667 might even know more so. Um people who are current dealing 722 00:53:07,667 --> 00:53:12,000 with situations and they need a little support or anybody who 723 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,800 has some wisdom to to share, you know? Mm hmm. Yes, 724 00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:19,467 definitely. Um I’m definitely going to be posting a lot more. 725 00:53:19,467 --> 00:53:23,667 I know we haven’t really been active in posting the meetings 726 00:53:23,667 --> 00:53:27,334 until the day of. So, I think I’m going to start posting like 727 00:53:27,334 --> 00:53:31,867 a couple days before and then leading up until Thursday. Um 728 00:53:31,867 --> 00:53:35,334 those are the plans set in place for that. Um as well as 729 00:53:35,334 --> 00:53:39,234 reaching out to other people in the groups that I’m in and 730 00:53:39,234 --> 00:53:44,400 Kayla as well. Um I spoke parents helping parents Zoom 731 00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:49,301 call last Friday and it’s usually an hour-long call and 732 00:53:49,301 --> 00:53:55,067 we went over almost 45 minutes just talking about what PFA has 733 00:53:55,067 --> 00:54:00,534 to offer and what we bring to the table. Um so. Good. I was 734 00:54:00,534 --> 00:54:03,733 really excited about it because we definitely got a lot of 735 00:54:03,733 --> 00:54:08,534 people to contact us out of that group. So, we’re we’re 736 00:54:08,534 --> 00:54:13,634 trying to get them to come in on and join us and Listen in 737 00:54:13,634 --> 00:54:17,400 even if there’s nothing that they have to add, even if it’s 738 00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:21,734 just a do, you know, just, if you don’t feel comfortable 739 00:54:21,734 --> 00:54:24,934 talking, you don’t have to talk. You can just listen, 740 00:54:24,934 --> 00:54:27,467 that’s fine. If you have something to say, just raise 741 00:54:27,467 --> 00:54:32,934 your hand and, you know, we’ll get to you. Yeah. Yeah. post a 742 00:54:32,934 --> 00:54:35,600 link to when you when you post about the meeting because this 743 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:39,801 has been, I think this is week four, pretty consistently. 744 00:54:39,801 --> 00:54:43,866 Well, first week about you, Amy and then you joined in and so, 745 00:54:43,866 --> 00:54:47,400 you know, I think you should share that with with other 746 00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,300 groups that you know are accommodating or welcoming to, 747 00:54:50,300 --> 00:54:52,667 you know, bringing everyone together as opposed to 748 00:54:52,667 --> 00:54:58,366 competition, you know? Correct. Yes. We agree. So, we are 749 00:54:58,366 --> 00:55:01,834 coming down to 7 o’clock. We usually have just this our 750 00:55:01,834 --> 00:55:05,734 window. Um so we are going to thank everybody for coming. 751 00:55:05,734 --> 00:55:09,234 Tiffany, Darlene, obviously Kayla, thank you for being 752 00:55:09,234 --> 00:55:12,167 here. Sorry guys, I got a housing inspection this week. I 753 00:55:12,167 --> 00:55:17,567 gotta get the house all set up for. Oh, that’s how. I 754 00:55:17,567 --> 00:55:21,234 remembered about it and I was like, **** That’s always fun. 755 00:55:21,234 --> 00:55:25,600 Um so, I guess until next Thursday, you can come join us 756 00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:30,268 for our Come Meet Everyone Thursday. Uh 6 PM. Don’t be 757 00:55:30,268 --> 00:55:34,834 late. We’d love to leave. Love to hear from you. Uh we’d 758 00:55:34,834 --> 00:55:38,400 definitely love to hear people’s stories because they 759 00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:42,600 definitely can help other people in their journeys. Uh 760 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:47,967 so, come and join us. And let’s talk. Excellent. Have a good 761 00:55:47,967 --> 00:55:51,100 night ladies. Thank you. Have a good night. I’ll talk to you 762 00:55:51,100 --> 00:55:56,000 guys later. Bye. Goodnight. Bye. Don’t play too much. 763 00:55:56,000 --> 00:56:01,100 Kayla. Try not to. Bye. Bye. 764 00:56:01,100 --> 00:56:06,134 Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.